“Katy Meaby has been my therapist
now for nearly six years, (my problems have proven to be complex
and deep rooted, hence the long period of time in therapy). During
this time Katy has helped me enormously; patiently and methodically
working on each problem and helping me to gain self-knowledge and
acceptance. She has constantly shown herself to be a person of great
skill, understanding, empathy, wisdom and professionalism. All these
qualities spring from her deep humanity and altruism. Katy is a
person of the highest integrity; I could not have found a better
therapist.
I would recommend Katy Meaby to
anyone who is seeking to improve their emotional well-being and
who is intent on self-betterment.”
RG 2005.
“I can now recognise different
behaviours i.e. assertive, passive and aggressive. I am learning
to be more realistic and I am more self-aware. I understand the
difference between being in control and controlling, and I am comfortable
with my emotions.”
AB 2005.
“Having been a returnee to this
particular base of therapy, I found it a lot less daunting, knowing
what to expect. I find my therapist, Katy Meaby very professional
and easy to communicate with and I believe that I have got the most
from the treatment. I found that I was able to discuss anything
with relative ease and was listened to well, with understanding
and empathy.”
CW 2003.
“You have allowed me to look at
my negative side and my illness, and help me to acknowledge it and
know that there is more to me than just sickness. For a long time,
I couldn’t hear my middle voice, but then I began to recognise it
in me, and self-trust began to develop and grow.”
KH 2003.
“I have found the sessions very
beneficial and they have made improvements in my personal life,
improvements that I could not have achieved on my own. Thank you
for the counselling and support.”
TR 2003.
“ I respect you and your way of
working and I think you are very good. Your interventions hit the
nail on the head, and are spot on. You seemed to have measured me
very well.”
MS 2002.
“There was something about you,
you are a very professional lady, you don’t talk shit, and you are
very good at listening, which is what nobody ever did for me. I
trust your professionalism.”
SC 2001.
“I know that you are an exceptionally
good counsellor…..I know because I have seen quite a few counsellors.
I don’t think you know how important you have been to me”.
LMG 2000.
“You must have done something good,
because I’m definitely not the same person as I was when I first
came here. You hit the nail on the head with your insight there.
It is a calming experience coming to see you Katy.”
CH 2000.
“The time I have spent with Katy
has been most beneficial; she has helped me put my problems in perspective,
and that I have a more positive approach to life. Her counselling
is unobtrusive but effective and I would have no hesitation in recommending
her.”
AH 1999.
“I took part in nine counselling
sessions with Eureka (my counsellor was Katy J. Meaby). They helped
me immensely. I was able to talk in detail about my fears and concerns.
The sessions instantly made me feel better in myself and helped
me cope with the following weeks’ hurdles.
I would like to take this opportunity
to thank Katy and Eureka for all the help I received and I wouldn’t
hesitate to recommend Eureka to anyone.”
CW 1999.
“The first three months or so of
this year have been very stressful. I was witnessing the break-up
of my marriage of seven months, the pain, anxiety and stress was
perhaps amplified by my partner’s confusion in not knowing what
she wanted anymore. I have since discovered she did not want me,
but she found it hard to talk about her feelings and could not be
open and honest and tell me so. This had a negative effect on my
own self-esteem. I started to blame and resent myself; I was empty
and completely mentally exhausted. I was close to cracking. She
could see what she was doing to me, the emotional pain was great
and it continued for some time eating away at me. I began to wonder
how someone could do this to somebody they loved.
Katy made me look at the situation
in a completely different light. It was not my fault. We initially
started building my self-esteem.
However, this hard work was constantly
undermined by my wife, who seemed content on shattering it every
time, whenever I
was reasonably happy and confident she found a way to make me sad.
This became clearer by the day – this person was controlling and
dominating my life. I was tiptoeing on eggshells all the time.
I’m not sure if I would have ever
known this if it had not have been for Katy. She helped me to realise
this – it was completely obvious to everyone else around me too,
but I did not see it for some time. I took a step back from my failing
relationship and looked within myself and what I wanted and what
made me happy – I had to be selfish and strong. It took a lot of
strength, but it was within me.
I would like to take this opportunity
to thank you Katy, for all your help, support and guidance over
the last few months. I am beginning to discover myself and am starting
to build a new life.”
DS 1999.
“I feel like you are someone I
could talk to, because there was something about you, and I can
trust you. I can’t trust many people.”
JJ 1998.
“I lead quite a full life, and
have a busy and demanding job, rushing from one end of the week
to the next. This picture is not one which is even unusual today.
I have been having counselling sessions, once a week with Katy Meaby
for 6 months, not because of my full life, but to find out more
about myself, particularly in terms of my relationship with my husband.
This started as an exercise in curiosity for me, and has led to
a far deeper understanding of the dynamics of our relationship,
and why things happen in the way that they do.
Katy is an excellent counsellor. She listens
without judgement, and questions in a way which is both challenging
and non-threatening. I now find the time spent with Katy to be the
best way of stepping back from the rush of things to look more closely
at what has been happening to me and how I deal with it. I find
Katy gives me space to explore whatever is important at the sessions,
and she is very flexible in not expecting me to stick to the plot,
which is important for me.
I regard my counselling as an important
way of helping me to move forward and make the best of myself and
my life.”
SWM 1998.
“When I first had a counselling
session I was soon put at easy by Katy. The relaxed atmosphere that
she created and her astute interjections assured me that she had
great empathy with me, and that she had insight and sympathy for
people who were troubled in their minds for whatever reason.
After very few sessions I was able
to open my heart with such honesty and sincerity as never before.
I found that I could talk to her more frankly than with any GP or
Consultant Psychiatrist, and as a result I was better able to get
in touch with, and understand my feelings. In short, I feel a great
deal better for having been counselled by Katy, and feel that I
have benefited greatly.”
TH 1993-1994.